{"id":880,"date":"2011-06-22T13:49:31","date_gmt":"2011-06-22T18:49:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.kuulstuff.com\/blog\/?p=880"},"modified":"2011-06-22T13:56:39","modified_gmt":"2011-06-22T18:56:39","slug":"disowning-a-child","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/kuulstuff.com\/blog\/disowning-a-child\/","title":{"rendered":"Disowning a Child"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Most\u00a0believe\u00a0that all children are equal and are treated equally by parents. But, most parents have a personal favorite to whom they may or may not bestow gifts. In contrast, some parents who are disgusted by their children&#8217;s choices may even disown them barring from all their properties and inheritances.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Parents versus Children<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Some children make their parents proud through their achievements while some others may bring\u00a0embarrassment\u00a0and shame on the family through their failures. Regardless of the child, most parents treat children fairly and try to support even in their old age. All children will be equally fed and provided education with some minor adjustments and based on the financial situation of the family.<\/p>\n<p>Children during the young ages look up on the parents as <a title=\"Parents Role Model\" href=\"http:\/\/www.kuulstuff.com\/blog\/?p=460\" target=\"_blank\">role models<\/a> and try to learn from them. As life progresses children get busy with studies, jobs, families, which is inevitable and is expected. During the entire process, how efficiently one is balancing parents and siblings expectations differs. While all may not manage equally, most of us feel related and belonged while speaking to a family member or sibling.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Disowning<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Disowning siblings or children is a common phenomenon in families. Due to changes in lives or personal choices many family members may not stand each other and try to avoid each other. Disowning formally involves barring all communication and inheritances which may be further distressful.<\/p>\n<p>Why some chose to disown a child or family member is a individual decision. But, the common psychology may have been in the interest of the child. Many poor families disown\u00a0their\u00a0children so that they\u00a0may find a better family. In modern days, children who marry out of the parents choice or who are drug addicts or have committed serious crimes are all being disowned by parents.<\/p>\n<p>Disowning is an extreme choice and must be done only in severe circumstances. While the disowned may face depression and loss, the\u00a0dis owner\u00a0may feel satisfied by being able to do what they wanted to do. Disowning may sometimes provide relief from the emotional burdens. \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n<p>Nowadays, some children too are disowning their parents once they become major. Would you disown your children if they acted out of your beliefs and wills?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Most believe that all children are equal and are treated equally by parents. But, most parents have a personal favorite to whom they may or may not bestow gifts. In contrast, some parents who are disgusted by their children&#8217;s choices may even disown them barring from all their properties and inheritances.<a href=\"http:\/\/kuulstuff.com\/blog\/disowning-a-child\/\" class=\"more-link\">Read More <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Disowning a Child<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[21],"tags":[65,747,239,32,365],"class_list":["post-880","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-daytoday","tag-children","tag-disowning","tag-family","tag-parents","tag-relationships"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p4AvRz-ec","jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":411,"url":"http:\/\/kuulstuff.com\/blog\/only-child-no-more-selfish-spoiled-and-lonely\/","url_meta":{"origin":880,"position":0},"title":"Only child? &#8211; No more selfish, spoiled and lonely","author":"KP","date":"July 9, 2010","format":false,"excerpt":"I was criticized by most friends and well wishers for my decision to have a single child. 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Taking care of the registrations, school supplies, back pack night, day care, transportation among others is easier for some but stressful for other parents.","rel":"","context":"In &quot;Day to day&quot;","block_context":{"text":"Day to day","link":"http:\/\/kuulstuff.com\/blog\/category\/daytoday\/"},"img":{"alt_text":"","src":"","width":0,"height":0},"classes":[]},{"id":469,"url":"http:\/\/kuulstuff.com\/blog\/scouting-developing-future-citizens\/","url_meta":{"origin":880,"position":4},"title":"Scouting &#8211; Developing future citizens","author":"KP","date":"September 8, 2010","format":false,"excerpt":"Scouting is popular worldwide for nurturing and developing children. The names of the organizations may differ in different pars of the world, but the basic motto of supporting young children in their physical, mental and spiritual development remains same. 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